I was fortunate to stay home with you a lot during this past month. The
South had some crazy winter weather and my office was closed probably more than
it needed to be. Atlanta basically shut down, but all of our friends and family
were safe. The winter storms brought us your first snow! Like the fantastic
parents we are, we did not play in it or get any pictures with it. It totally
kills me that we did not take advantage of this, but we both had pretty bad
colds and your father was adamant about not taking unnecessary chances. I was
also told by your teachers at school that we are their favorite parents.
Assuming they do not tell everyone this, J and I had to laugh about it. Their
reasoning is that we are totally honest and upfront about things and not
delusional. This is very, very true. They seemed to enjoy hearing about how your
father said I looked like a meth addict who had been up all night when he saw
me the next morning after the night from hell. You are doing so well at school and
we have been very happy with it so far.
Sleep: Sleep is such a sketchy thing. You started off month four
sleeping through the night (for the most part). Then you began waking up to eat
around 4-6 AM, which was not so bad since your dad gets up around that time to
go to work. Four months to the day you were born (literally), you started
waking up twice during the night. You would wake anywhere from 11 PM to 1 AM. I
honestly attributed it to the shots you had that day or even the four month
sleep regression. We moved you into a convertible Wombie sleep suit because you
started rolling from back to belly. The first few nights were crazy with you occasionally
sleeping on your stomach and sometimes it would wake you up. Since it’s been a
few weeks, it’s gotten so much better. I am sure you would be fine in your
Magic Melin suit, but it’s so fluffy that it freaked me out with the whole
rolling skill. We put you to bed either asleep or somewhat drowsy. If we put
you down and you are still awake, we may give you a paci. You continue to not
be a good napper. Yesterday at school you slept for forty minutes around lunch
and forty minutes in the afternoon.
During this month we also experience what your father and I lovingly call the
night from hell. Your dad fed you and then you screamed your cute little head
off and refused to go to bed. Mom came in to nurse you and you continued to
scream. Your tummy felt gassy (or so I thought because really I have no idea
what a gassy tummy feels like) so we gave you gas drops. Then you proceeded to
throw up all over me. You would only quiet down if we held you and walked
around the house. About the time we realized this, I received word that work
was closed for the next day so your father escaped to the bedroom to get some sleep.
I cannot walk for hours on end and you started crying again. Dad and I put you
in the car to drive around. Yes, we were those parents and it worked - until we
came back home and tried to put you in your crib. At this point, your father
moved us downstairs and he went back to bed as he had work in a few hours. I
walked you around the house for a while and finally was able to settle into our
recliner with you sleeping on my chest. That lasted for a couple of hours until
you work up screaming. I walked around with you a bit more and then decided to
try the swing. You fussed for 15 minutes as I gave you a paci to use and then
you were out! When dad came down to go to work we moved you into your napper
and went back upstairs so I could sleep in my bed. Finally. You woke up a few
hours later like nothing and happened and you were all smiles. Really?! Since
my office was closed for the day, but school was not, I took you to daycare and
told your teachers “good luck!” The point of this long novel is to pay
attention when you feed a baby with a bottle. If the baby finishes the bottle
and is sucking in air while you watch Netflix on your ipad, you too can
experience a night of hell with a gassy baby.
Clothes and Diapers, etc: You are pretty much in 3-6 month clothing.
There are very few 3 month pants that fit you. We also moved you up to size 2
diapers. Forget Soothies or Wubbanubs! I never really wanted to get you hooked
on pacifiers, but in reality you are not too fond of them. Your favorite pacis
are the plain, basic ones. You pretty much chew on Wubbanubs when we give you
one. We truly do not offer them to you a whole lot except maybe in the evenings
if you fuss while we eat dinner or get ready for bed.
Bath: Bath time has become a much happier time for every member of
our family. With the random cold weather, your skin was getting very dry so we
started using Burt’s Bees lotion and now use lotion from the Honest Company.
Thanks to the prescription shampoo you used, the cradle cap seems to have gone
away. We also discovered that you and G Daddy have the same prescribed shampoo.
Weird. It the cradle cap continues to stay at bay then we will go back to using
the shampoo/body wash from the Honest Company.
Medical: At the beginning of this month you caught a yucky cold. At
first we were convinced that it happened to get too cold in your room and we
did not dress you properly for bed. Everyone else liked to blame school. You
had a very stuffy nose and bad cough so we had to squirt saline up your nose
and suck everything out. You loved it! In actuality, you despised it. We happened
to be in Atlanta that weekend and Granny Fox and I caught the cold. About a
week later, your father woke up with a horrid stomach virus. I threw you into
the car and took you to school to get away from our house. That Friday evening,
I caught the stomach virus and seriously wondered how on earth either of us
could take care of you without you getting sick. J woke up feeling a bit better
and I stayed away from you pretty much all day. You managed to miss out on the
stomach fun and I am SO thankful you did!
Food: You are still EBF. I try and nurse you in the morning before
work and in the evening before bed. Sometimes we will give you a bottle before
bed depending on the time. Around 15 weeks, you had a crazy growth spurt and
started to cry when you finished your bottles. Plus, you nursed a ton and I was
constantly starving. We increased your feedings to 4.5 oz – such a big girl you
are! I also changed to level 2 nipples for your bottles and you seem to be handling
that well. We have the go ahead to try rice cereal, but since you show very
little interest in food we are probably going to hold off for a bit longer. We attempt
to put you in your high chair so you can sit with us at the table when we have
time to sit and eat together. Some nights are better than others.
Stats: You weigh 14.6 lbs and are 24.5 inches long. Your head is 39.9
cm.
Development/Mannerisms: You have started to grasp objects and love
your orange ball because you can easily grab it. Everything goes in your mouth
and I mean everything. You chew on your hands like it’s going out of style. It
was confirmed at your doctor’s appointment that your bottom gums are swollen so
the teething process has begun. It makes sense because you are a drooling mess.
You started off the month by rolling on your side and at 17 weeks you rolled
onto your tummy. Thank the Lord it was literally right before bed. I came
upstairs and your father was like “Hey. She just rolled on her stomach so I
rolled her unto her back again.” I flipped out and he was all “What is this a
big milestone?” I went over to you in the crib and you did it again! We put you
into your convertible Wombie sleep suit as I was afraid that Magic Merlin suit
would somehow be bad for you since you were rolling.
Appearance: You were born
with a head full of dark brown hair and luckily your hair has remained. It has
changed from dark brown into a much lighter brown color – more like your
fathers. He said his hair turned blond when he was younger so we shall see if
yours will too. Since you have spent so much time laying on the floor, in a
swing, napper, etc. the hair on the back of your head has started to fall out.
I will not lie to you – it is kind of awkward looking. J Your eyes are gorgeous! They are a beautiful, deep blue color. I know
eyes can change colors (as mine did when I was younger), but J has amazing blue
eyes so there is a chance yours may follow suit. Your eyebrows are still very
light in color, but your lashes have started to grow. Woo hoo! The nails on
your fingers grow so quickly and can get very sharp. In my humble opinion, you
have a lot of ear wax as well.
Likes:
Play Mat at school and home
Your father – you love looking at him and have the biggest smiles for him
Chewing on anything and everything
Dislikes:
Gas – maybe dairy?
Your swing in the evening
Naps
All About Mom:
- Down 33.5 lbs from pregnancy. Still not sure when I will be able to use
that gym membership.
- My awesome, long finger nails have disappeared.
- I am losing so (and I mean SO) much hair. It falls out all the time now. I
knew this could happen and it started for me around 3 months post-partum.
- Confession: I miss dates with my DVR. As soon as I get home in the
evenings I am trying to get dinner ready, finish getting dinner ready or
eating. Then it’s time to feed the foos, wash and sterilize bottles and pump
parts, get pump bag packed, make labels and bottles for the next day, pack
breakfast and lunches, get the coffee maker ready for the next morning, etc. We
both get E ready for bed and one of us will feed her and put her to bed. Around
this time, I usually take a shower and J gets in bed since he works such early
hours. I may watch a bit of tv or Netflix while I pump before bed and then it’s
lights out. I thrive on having a schedule/check list for the evenings, but the
day is literally over before I know it. J helps out SO much. I have no idea
what I would do if I was by myself or if he did not help. Guess I will find out
in the next month or so since it is grass cutting season! It is totally worth it, but I sometimes daydream about the time I will have when I am no longer your food source. Oddly enough, it saddens me to think about it.